A case can stall for the simplest reason: you have papers to deliver but no idea where the person is. Learning how to find someone to serve them is one of the most common hurdles in litigation — an old address, a person who moved, or someone deliberately keeping a low profile. The good news is that a missing address rarely means a dead end. Here’s how professionals locate hard-to-find parties, document the search, and get them served in California.
Get Em Process Servers is a bonded, registered, and certified California process-serving company — not a law firm. This article is general information, not legal advice. For questions about your case, consult a licensed attorney.
When you don’t have a current address
Not having a current address is more common than people expect. The person may have moved without a forwarding address, given an old one, or intentionally gone quiet to avoid a case. Whatever the reason, you can’t serve papers at a door you can’t find.
The key is not to burn time and diligence attempting service at a stale address. Repeated tries at the wrong location don’t advance your case — they just delay it. The first step in finding someone to serve them is confirming where they actually are now. For the broader picture of how service works once you’ve located them, see our guide to service of process in California.

How to find someone to serve them — locate with skip tracing, document the search, and use publication only as a last resort.
Skip tracing to locate the person
The professional tool for locating a hard-to-find party is skip tracing — using databases, public records, and investigative techniques to develop a current address. Skip tracing can turn up updated contact information, employment leads, and location clues that a casual search never would.
A good skip trace does more than spit out an address; it cross-checks sources to point service at the right place, cutting down on wasted attempts. Pairing skip tracing with persistent service is often what moves a stuck case forward. Learn more about our skip tracing service and how it plugs into a serve.
Documenting a diligent search
Locating the person is only part of the story — you also have to document the effort. If the person truly can’t be found and you later need the court’s help with an alternative method, the court will want evidence of a genuine, diligent search: what sources were checked, what addresses were attempted, and what came back.
A professional keeps a clear record of every step, from skip-tracing sources to service attempts. That documentation supports whatever comes next, whether it’s a pivot to substituted service at a newly found address or, in rare cases, a request to serve by publication. Without the record, those options are much harder to justify.
Service by publication as a last resort
When someone genuinely can’t be located after real effort, California allows a fallback: service by publication. With a court order, notice of the case can be published so the matter can proceed even though the person was never handed the papers.
This is truly a last resort. It requires asking the court’s permission and showing that you made a diligent, documented effort to find and serve the person by other means first. In other words, publication is available precisely because you tried everything else — which is why the earlier steps of locating and documenting matter so much. The specifics of requesting publication are a matter for your attorney.
How a pro handles it end to end
Handled by a professional, “I can’t find them” becomes a workflow rather than a wall:
- Locate. Skip tracing develops a current address from databases and public records.
- Attempt. Diligent, well-timed service attempts are made at the confirmed location.
- Pivot. If personal service can’t be completed, substituted service is used where the rules allow.
- Document. Every source and attempt is recorded to support the serve — or a request for an alternative method.
- Escalate if needed. When the person truly can’t be found, the documented search supports a court request for publication.
That end-to-end approach is what keeps a missing-address case from becoming a stalled one.
Common reasons people go missing
It helps to understand why a person is hard to find, because the reason shapes how you locate them. Some moves are ordinary life: a new job in another city, a lease that ended, a relationship that changed the household. These people aren’t hiding at all — they simply left an outdated address behind, and a straightforward skip trace usually catches up with them quickly.
Others are harder by design. A person who senses a case coming may deliberately keep a low profile — using a relative’s address, avoiding anything in their own name, or moving frequently. Locating these parties takes deeper, cross-checked investigation rather than a single lookup. Knowing which situation you’re in early helps set expectations for effort, time, and cost, and it’s part of what an experienced professional reads from the first round of results.
What to gather before you order
You can make a locate-and-serve job faster by handing over everything you already know. Useful starting details include the person’s full legal name and any known variations, their last known address, a date of birth if you have it, and any leads on employment, associates, or vehicles. Even partial information — an old phone number, a former employer, a relative’s name — can give a skip trace a thread to pull.
The more accurate the starting point, the more efficient the search, which often means faster results at lower cost. If all you have is a name, that’s still workable; it just tells the professional to plan for a deeper search from the outset rather than a quick confirmation.

How Get Em finds and serves the hard-to-reach
Get Em Process Servers specializes in the parties nobody else can find. Our skip tracing develops current addresses, our servers make persistent, documented attempts, and we keep the kind of diligent-search record that supports your next step — including a request for publication when it comes to that. Bonded, registered, insured, and certified since 2008, we cover Southern California and nationwide through our network. When you can’t find someone to serve, order service online and let us locate and serve them.
Frequently asked questions
How do I find someone to serve them?
Start with skip tracing — using databases and public records to develop a current address — rather than attempting service at a stale one. A professional locates the person, then makes diligent, documented attempts at the confirmed location.
What is skip tracing?
Skip tracing is the process of locating a hard-to-find person using databases, public records, and investigative techniques. It develops a current address so service can actually be attempted.
What if the person still can’t be found?
When someone truly can’t be located after a diligent, documented search, California allows service by publication with a court order. It’s a last resort that depends on showing you tried other methods first.
Why does documenting the search matter?
Because alternative methods like publication require proof of a genuine, diligent effort to find and serve the person. A clear record of sources and attempts supports that request and keeps your case moving.
Can a process server help me locate someone?
Yes. A registered process server with skip-tracing capability can both locate the person and serve them, keeping the whole process — locate, attempt, document, escalate — in one place.
The bottom line
Not having an address doesn’t have to stall your case. Learning how to find someone to serve them comes down to a clear process: locate with skip tracing, make diligent attempts at the confirmed address, document every step, and — only as a last resort — ask the court about service by publication. Handled by a persistent professional, a missing person becomes a solvable problem rather than a dead end.
Can’t find the person you need to serve? Order service online or call (626) 499-5099 — skip tracing, persistent service, and court-ready proof.
Get Em Process Servers provides professional service of process and legal support in California and nationwide. This content is general information, not legal advice; for questions about your case, consult a licensed attorney.



